Demand for Surviving Spouse's Allowance (Delaware)

Delaware Estate Planning & Wills Updated October 28, 2026 Free Word and PDF

DEMAND FOR SURVIVING SPOUSE'S ALLOWANCE

REGISTER OF WILLS, [COUNTY] COUNTY


CAPTION

Party Role
IN RE: ESTATE OF
[DECEDENT FULL LEGAL NAME], also known as [AKA, if any], Deceased

Estate / File Number: [____________________________________]
County in which Letters were granted: [____________] County, Delaware


1. CLAIMANT (SURVIVING SPOUSE) INFORMATION

Surviving Spouse Name: [SURVIVING SPOUSE FULL LEGAL NAME]
Address: [STREET ADDRESS], [CITY], [STATE] [ZIP CODE]
Telephone: [________________________________] Email: [________________________________]
Date of Marriage to Decedent: [__/__/____]


2. DECEDENT INFORMATION

Field Detail
Decedent Full Legal Name [DECEDENT FULL LEGAL NAME]
Also Known As [AKA(s), if any]
Date of Death [__/__/____]
Domicile at Death [CITY, STATE OR COUNTRY]
Testate or Intestate ☐ Testate (will dated [__/__/____]) ☐ Intestate
Date Letters Testamentary / of Administration granted [__/__/____]
Executor / Administrator Name [________________________________]
Executor / Administrator Address [________________________________]

3. STATUTORY ENTITLEMENT (12 Del. C. § 2308)

3.1 Under 12 Del. C. § 2308(a), the surviving spouse of any decedent is entitled to receive, and the executor or administrator shall pay to such spouse as soon as convenient, cash up to the amount of $7,500 out of the estate of the Decedent. That payment is made in the order of preference of claims against the estate set forth in 12 Del. C. § 2105.

3.2 The allowance does not affect any other rights to which the surviving spouse may be entitled under the will of the Decedent or under the intestacy laws of Delaware.

3.3 Written Demand Required — § 2308(b). The allowance is of no effect unless and until the surviving spouse notifies, in writing, the Register of Wills of the county where letters were granted and the executor or administrator, demanding that a specific sum (not exceeding $7,500) be set aside out of the proceeds of the estate. This demand must be made within the shorter of:
(a) nine (9) months from the Decedent's date of death; or
(b) six (6) months from the date letters testamentary or of administration were granted.

3.4 Treated as a Debt — § 2308(c). The allowance is considered a debt of the estate, and the executor or administrator may sell so much of the Decedent's property as is necessary to pay it, in the same manner provided by law for payment of other debts of the Decedent or the estate.


4. AMOUNT DEMANDED

The surviving spouse hereby demands that the following specific sum (not exceeding $7,500) be set aside and paid from the proceeds of the estate:

Item Amount
Surviving Spouse's Allowance demanded under 12 Del. C. § 2308 $[________________]

☐ The amount demanded does not exceed the $7,500 statutory maximum.


5. TIMELINESS OF DEMAND

Trigger Date Date Deadline
Date of Death [__/__/____] + 9 months = [__/__/____]
Date Letters Granted [__/__/____] + 6 months = [__/__/____]
Controlling deadline (the earlier of the two above) [__/__/____]

☐ This written demand is made on or before the controlling deadline and is therefore timely under 12 Del. C. § 2308(b).


6. PRIORITY / PAYMENT

6.1 After administration expenses, fees, and commissions, the surviving spouse's allowance has the first claim preference under 12 Del. C. § 2105(a)(1) and is treated as a debt of the estate under § 2308(c).

6.2 The executor or administrator may sell estate property as necessary to satisfy the allowance, in the same manner as for other debts of the Decedent or the estate.


7. DEMAND

The surviving spouse demands that:

a. The Register of Wills and the executor/administrator set aside the sum of $[________________] (not exceeding $7,500) as the surviving spouse's allowance under 12 Del. C. § 2308;

b. The executor or administrator pay that sum to the surviving spouse as soon as convenient, in the order of preference of claims under 12 Del. C. § 2105.


8. SIGNED CONFIRMATION

I, [SURVIVING SPOUSE FULL LEGAL NAME], the surviving spouse of the Decedent, have read this Demand and confirm that its factual statements are true and correct to the best of my knowledge, information, and belief. I request the allowance stated above.

Executed on [__/__/____] at [CITY, STATE OR COUNTRY].

Surviving Spouse Signature: ______________________________________

Printed Name: [SURVIVING SPOUSE FULL LEGAL NAME]


9. CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE

I certify that on [__/__/____] a true and correct copy of this written Demand was served on the following, as required by 12 Del. C. § 2308(b), by the method indicated:

Party Served Address Method Date
Register of Wills, [COUNTY] County [________________________________] ☐ Hand ☐ Certified Mail ☐ Other verified method: [________] [__/__/____]
Executor / Administrator [________________________________] ☐ Hand ☐ Certified Mail ☐ Other verified method: [________] [__/__/____]

Signature: ______________________________________
Printed Name: [SURVIVING SPOUSE / ATTORNEY NAME]
Delaware Bar ID No.: [________________] (if applicable)
Address: [________________________________]
Telephone: [________________________________] Email: [________________________________]


ATTACHMENTS CHECKLIST:

☐ Certified copy of Death Certificate
☐ Proof of marriage to the Decedent (marriage certificate)
☐ Copy of Letters Testamentary / of Administration (showing date granted)
☐ Proof of service on the Register of Wills and on the executor/administrator
☐ Copy of will (if testate)
☐ Receipt/acknowledgment from Register of Wills (after filing)

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Last updated
October 28, 2026
Citations checked
October 28, 2026
Jurisdiction
Delaware
Category
Estate Planning & Wills

Legal authority

  • 12 Del. C. § 2308(a)
  • 12 Del. C. § 2308(b)
  • 12 Del. C. § 2308(c)
  • 12 Del. C. § 2105(a)(1)

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12 Del. C. § 2308(a) (checked October 28, 2026): "The surviving spouse of any decedent shall be entitled to receive and the executor or administrator shall pay to such spouse as soon as convenient, in the manner provided in this section, cash up to the amount of $7,500 out of the estate of the decedent"

12 Del. C. § 2308(b) (checked October 28, 2026): "notify in writing the Register of Wills of the county wherein the letters were granted and the executor or administrator of such spouse’s demand that a specific sum, not exceeding $7,500, be so set aside out of the proceeds of the estate of the decedent."

10 Del. C. § 5353 (checked October 28, 2026): "This chapter applies to an unsworn declaration by a declarant who at the time of making the declaration is physically located outside the boundaries of the United States"

12 Del. C. § 2308(a) (checked October 28, 2026): "The foregoing provision shall not affect any other rights to which such spouse may be entitled, either under the will of the decedent or the intestacy laws of this State."

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