Child Custody Agreement (D.C. Parenting Plan Preparation Packet)
DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA CHILD CUSTODY AGREEMENT
Proposed Parenting-Plan Preparation Packet
DO NOT FILE THIS PACKET AS AN OFFICIAL COURT FORM. Transfer approved terms
to the current documents required by the Superior Court. A private signature
does not by itself enter or modify a custody or child-support order.
Official parenting-plan reference:
https://www.dccourts.gov/sites/default/files/2019-07/CUSTODY%20PARENTING%20PLAN.pdf
1. Case and Order Control
| Item | Verified entry | Source or attachment |
|---|---|---|
| Court and division | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Case number | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Plaintiff or petitioner | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Defendant or respondent | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Related case numbers | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Parentage determination or acknowledgment | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Current custody order and date | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Current child-support order and date | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Protective, no-contact, criminal, neglect, or other safety order | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Other-state, tribal, or foreign proceeding or order | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Current hearing or deadline | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
☐ Complete copies of every current and prior relevant order are attached or securely linked.
☐ The proposed terms do not direct anyone to violate an existing order.
☐ Counsel has identified the correct procedural route: initial custody case, agreed proposed order, contested parenting plan, or motion to modify.
2. Safety and Address Screen
Before exchanging addresses, contact details, or schedules, identify any allegation or finding involving an intrafamily offense, child abuse, child neglect, parental kidnapping, stalking, threats, coercive control, substance-related danger, unsafe exchange, or risk of removal.
☐ No safety concern has been reported after confidential screening.
☐ A safety concern exists and counsel must prepare protected-address, exchange, contact, supervision, or other requested terms: [________________________________]
☐ A current order controls contact or disclosure: [________________________________]
Do not place a confidential address in this packet. Use a substitute or protected address only after counsel confirms the current court process.
3. Parents and Children
Parent A
Full legal name: [________________________________]
Safe mailing address or substitute address: [________________________________]
Safe telephone and email: [________________________________]
Work and recurring schedule constraints: [________________________________]
Parent B
Full legal name: [________________________________]
Safe mailing address or substitute address: [________________________________]
Safe telephone and email: [________________________________]
Work and recurring schedule constraints: [________________________________]
Children Covered by This Plan
| Full legal name | Date of birth | Current residence | School or childcare | Individual needs |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| [________________________________] | [__/__/____] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| [________________________________] | [__/__/____] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| [________________________________] | [__/__/____] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
If arrangements differ materially among children, prepare a child-specific schedule or separate plan and explain the reason: [________________________________]
4. Proposed Legal Custody and Decision-Making
D.C. law treats legal custody as legal responsibility for a child, including decisions about health, education, and general welfare and access to specified records and information. Select proposed terms only after the best-interest and safety screens are complete.
Overall Proposal
☐ Joint legal custody
☐ Sole legal custody to Parent A
☐ Sole legal custody to Parent B
☐ Other proposed arrangement for court review: [________________________________]
Allocation of Decisions
| Topic | Joint | Parent A | Parent B | Consultation, notice, or tie-break proposal |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Medical care | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| Mental-health care | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| Dental care | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| School choice and educational services | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| Religion or religious training, if any | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| Organized activities affecting time or cost | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
| Other major welfare decision | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | [________________________________] |
Routine day-to-day decisions during each parent’s scheduled time: [________________________________]
Emergency health or safety decisions and prompt information-sharing proposal: [________________________________]
Records and provider/school communication proposal: [________________________________]
5. Proposed Physical Custody and Regular Schedule
D.C. law treats physical custody as the child’s living arrangements, including residency or visitation schedules.
Overall Proposal
☐ Joint physical custody
☐ Sole physical custody to Parent A with the schedule below
☐ Sole physical custody to Parent B with the schedule below
☐ Other proposed arrangement for court review: [________________________________]
School-Year Schedule
| Day | Parent A time | Parent B time | Transfer details |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Tuesday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Wednesday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Thursday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Friday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Saturday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Sunday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
The cycle repeats: ☐ weekly ☐ every two weeks ☐ other: [________________________________]
School-closure, teacher-workday, weather, and remote-learning terms: [________________________________]
Summer Schedule
☐ School-year schedule continues.
☐ Summer schedule changes as follows: [________________________________]
Vacation selection process, dates, and conflict priority: [________________________________]
6. Holidays, Birthdays, and Breaks
State exact start and end times. Identify whether a holiday schedule overrides the regular schedule.
| Occasion | Even-numbered years | Odd-numbered years | Start, end, and exchange |
|---|---|---|---|
| New Year period | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Martin Luther King Jr. Day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Spring break | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Memorial Day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Independence Day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Labor Day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Thanksgiving break | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Winter break, first part | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Winter break, second part | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Child’s birthday | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Parent A special day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Parent B special day | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Religious or cultural occasion | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Other | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
Priority among holiday, vacation, summer, and regular schedules: [________________________________]
7. Exchanges and Transportation
| Issue | Proposed term |
|---|---|
| Exchange location | [________________________________] |
| Exchange day and time | [________________________________] |
| Parent responsible for pickup | [________________________________] |
| Parent responsible for drop-off | [________________________________] |
| School or childcare exchange | [________________________________] |
| Authorized transporting adults | [________________________________] |
| Child restraints, medication, equipment, and belongings | [________________________________] |
| Delay notice method | [________________________________] |
| Agreed waiting period | [________________________________] |
| Extraordinary transportation costs | [________________________________] |
| Safety or supervised-exchange terms | [________________________________] |
8. Activities and Temporary Schedule Changes
Activities
| Child | Activity | Decision-maker | Attendance | Schedule effect | Cost allocation |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
Temporary Changes
Request method: ☐ in person ☐ telephone ☐ email ☐ text ☐ parenting application ☐ other: [________________________________]
Ordinary advance notice requested by the parents: [________________________________]
Response method and requested time: [________________________________]
Effect of no response: ☐ existing schedule remains ☐ other term reviewed by counsel: [________________________________]
Make-up time, if expressly agreed: [________________________________]
A temporary accommodation does not itself amend a court order unless the court enters a modification through the proper process.
9. Communications and Information
Parent-to-parent method and boundaries: [________________________________]
Child-to-Parent A contact while away: [________________________________]
Child-to-Parent B contact while away: [________________________________]
School, provider, activity, and emergency information-sharing: [________________________________]
Calendar or parenting-application protocol: [________________________________]
Emergency notice method: [________________________________]
10. Child Expenses and Child-Support Gate
Joint custody does not eliminate child-support responsibility. Do not insert a negotiated support amount without completing the current guideline analysis and court-review requirements.
| Item | Proposed payer or percentage | Guideline or order treatment verified by | Attachment |
|---|---|---|---|
| Existing periodic support | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Health-insurance premium | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Uninsured or extraordinary medical expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Dental and vision expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Work- or education-related childcare | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Education expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Activity expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Transportation expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
| Other child expense | [________________________________] | [________________________________] | [________________________________] |
☐ Current income and required financial information have been exchanged and verified.
☐ Counsel completed the current applicable child-support worksheet.
☐ Any proposed departure from the presumptive guideline has been separately documented for judicial review.
☐ The proposed support terms do not alter an existing support order unless and until the court enters an appropriate order.
11. Travel, Residence, and Other Proposed Terms
Domestic travel information proposal: [________________________________]
International travel, passport, consent, and itinerary proposal: [________________________________]
Residence-change issue identified: ☐ no ☐ yes — details: [________________________________]
Effect of a possible move on school, transportation, and the residential schedule: [________________________________]
No generic relocation notice period is supplied. Counsel must review the controlling order, current law, jurisdiction, the proposed move, and the correct court procedure before drafting any residence-change term or request.
Other child-specific term: [________________________________]
12. Optional Conflict-Resolution Proposal
D.C. Code § 16-914(c)(11) permits a parenting plan to address conflict resolution, such as recognized family counseling or mediation, before applying to the court. It does not make the following choices automatic.
☐ Direct child-focused discussion, when safe
☐ Family counseling by mutual agreement and when clinically appropriate
☐ Mediation by mutual agreement and when safe
☐ Immediate court access preserved for safety, emergency, jurisdictional, or time-sensitive issues
Proposed process, provider selection, cost, timing, confidentiality review, and exceptions: [________________________________]
No binding private arbitration term is created by this packet.
13. Best-Interest and Feasibility Record
Explain how the proposal addresses the child’s circumstances rather than merely the parents’ preferences.
| Topic | Facts, records, and proposed response |
|---|---|
| Child’s wishes, where practicable | [________________________________] |
| Relationships with parents, siblings, and other significant persons | [________________________________] |
| Adjustment to home, school, and community | [________________________________] |
| Physical and mental health needs | [________________________________] |
| Parents’ communication and shared-decision capacity | [________________________________] |
| Prior involvement of each parent | [________________________________] |
| Potential social or school disruption | [________________________________] |
| Distance between homes and schedule practicality | [________________________________] |
| Employment demands | [________________________________] |
| Age and number of children | [________________________________] |
| Financial feasibility | [________________________________] |
| Safety findings, allegations, and protective measures | [________________________________] |
| Other relevant circumstance | [________________________________] |
14. Counsel and Filing Completion Checklist
☐ Jurisdiction and any interstate, tribal, foreign, military, or immigration issue were verified.
☐ Parentage and the identities of all persons entitled to notice were verified.
☐ Every proposed term was compared with all controlling orders.
☐ Safety screening was completed separately for each parent.
☐ The current court forms, filing route, service method, fees or waiver, and hearing requirements were verified.
☐ The child-support guideline, worksheet, supporting records, and any departure were completed.
☐ Confidential information was removed, redacted, or submitted through the correct protected process.
☐ Proposed order language identifies precisely what prior provision, if any, would be replaced.
☐ Counsel advised that later modification of a custody award requires the showing and court process stated in current law.
15. Proposed-Term Acknowledgment
This block records approval of draft terms for counsel and court-document preparation. It is not a representation that an order has been entered or modified.
| Parent A | Parent B |
|---|---|
| Signature: ______________________________ | Signature: ______________________________ |
| Printed name: [________________________________] | Printed name: [________________________________] |
| Date: [__/__/____] | Date: [__/__/____] |
| Counsel, if any: [________________________________] | Counsel, if any: [________________________________] |
☐ The parents request that approved terms be placed into the correct proposed court order.
☐ The parents understand that the court retains authority over custody and child-support orders.
Sources and Verification Notes
- D.C. Code § 16-914, official D.C. Council XML: https://github.com/DCCouncil/law-xml/blob/main/us/dc/council/code/titles/16/sections/16-914.xml
- D.C. Code § 16-916.01, official D.C. Council XML: https://github.com/DCCouncil/law-xml/blob/main/us/dc/council/code/titles/16/sections/16-916.01.xml
- Superior Court of the District of Columbia Parenting Plan: https://www.dccourts.gov/sites/default/files/2019-07/CUSTODY%20PARENTING%20PLAN.pdf
Official sources were accessed and amendment leads were screened on August 25, 2026. The bill-index searches produced no relevant recent amendment lead for the cited sections; the current official consolidated XML controls.
About this template
- Last updated
- August 25, 2026
- Citations checked
- August 25, 2026
- Jurisdiction
- District of Columbia
- Category
- Family Law
Legal authority
- D.C. Code § 16-914(a) (custody types, definitions, presumptions, and best-interest factors)
- D.C. Code § 16-914(c)-(f), (h) (parenting plans, order terms, support, modification, and agreed arrangements)
- D.C. Code § 16-916.01(a)-(b), (o)-(q) (child-support guideline and review of agreed support terms)
Family law covers the paperwork that shapes divorce, custody, child support, adoption, guardianship, and other family matters. These filings are emotional and high-stakes, and they also have to meet strict procedural rules for service, financial disclosure, and parenting plans. Clean, accurate paperwork keeps the focus on getting a workable outcome for the family instead of getting derailed by technical problems that delay hearings or force amended filings.
Not legal advice
This template is provided for informational purposes. We recommend having an attorney review any legal document before signing, especially for high-value or complex matters.
Checked against the law it cites
A reviewer verified this template's legal citations against the official source on August 25, 2026.
D.C. Code § 16-914(a)(1)(A)-(B) (checked August 25, 2026): "In any proceeding between parents in which the custody of a child is raised as an issue, the best interest of the child shall be the primary consideration. The Court shall make a determination as to the legal custody and the physical custody of a child."
D.C. Code § 16-914(c) (checked August 25, 2026): "In any custody proceeding under this chapter, the Court may order each parent to submit a detailed parenting plan which shall delineate each parent’s position with respect to the scheduling and allocation of rights and responsibilities that will best serve the interest of the minor child or children."
D.C. Code § 16-914(e) (checked August 25, 2026): "Joint custody shall not eliminate the responsibility for child support in accordance with the applicable child support guideline as set forth in § 16-916.01."
D.C. Code § 16-914(f)(1) (checked August 25, 2026): "An award of custody may be modified or terminated upon the motion of one or both parents, or on the Court’s own motion, upon a determination that there has been a substantial and material change in circumstances and that the modification or termination is in the best interest of the child."
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